Eccentric NG

Whether you’re 26 and flying, 29 and figuring it out, or already there and pretending to be 27 again — this list is for you.

Not all of it is deep. Some of it is just vibes. But if you’ve ticked off most of these, chances are, you’ve got a good head on your shoulders.

We asked a few people on the Eccentric team, plus some of our 30+ customers, to share the things they believe every man should know, own, or outgrow before 30.

Here’s what we came up with — a little style, a little sense, and a few quiet reminders that you’re not doing too bad.

1. Just have one suit that always pulls compliments — you don’t need ten, just one that hits.
2. Build a wardrobe you can mix and match without thinking too hard. (More on that this month, by the way.)
3. Find a tailor that gets your fit without needing a long explanation.
4. Everyone needs one outfit that says “don’t talk to me” — maybe a cold 2-piece or trad that slaps.
5. Your body’s not the problem. The fit is. Dress for your shape, not someone else’s.
6. That giant H belt? Time to retire it.
7. Smell good. Not strong. Not loud. Just good.

8. Start saying “my rate is…” and mean it with your chest.
9. Have more than one bank account — just makes life easier.
10. Invest in something you could explain to a 10-year-old. If it’s too complex, maybe sit it out.
11. Save money quietly. You don’t need to post about the grind every time.
12. Read the damn contract. Every time.
13. Stop feeling weird about your salary — we’re all just trying to figure it out.
14. Have a CV and wardrobe that both say “I’m serious.”
15. If you’re hiring someone, pay them. Don’t bargain people to the ground.
16. Go to the dentist. That smile is part of your capital.

Mental

17. Apologize properly. Just own it.
18. Say no when you need to. Protect your peace.
19. Call your people back. No one’s that busy.
20. Have that one friend who can pull you aside and tell you you’re moving mad.
21. Be okay being alone sometimes. Doesn’t mean you’re lonely.
22. Be the guy people name when someone says “I trust his judgement.”
23. Say “I don’t know” without shame. You’re not dumb. You’re learning.
24. Outgrow all that comparison energy. Just stay consistent.
25. Learn how to actually rest. Not scroll-rest. Real rest.
26. Move like the version of you five years from now would be proud.

You’re not late. You’re just in motion.
Tick a few off, SHARE to someone who needs it, and keep it moving.

— Team Eccentric